Black Women Need To Stand By Their Man More

Slim Thug recently gave his opinion on Black women, and while everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I believe that he could have kept this to himself. He was right about both men & women needing to change their way of thinking, but he threw all Black women under the bus, and contradicted himself in the process.

It’s sad that Black women are continuously stereotyped as being Gold Diggers, Bitches, Hoes, and steadily given a bad name. Yes there are those types of females around, but when you put ALL Black women into those categories, I have a problem with that. There are too many of us ladies who are in school, have earned degrees, or are going somewhere in life, and that’s being overlooked.

…. Why should ANY woman have to settle for less??? If I’ve gone to school, gotten my degree & I’m working hard, you mean to tell me that I should settle down with a sorry-ass wanna be goon, who sits on his ass all day? Really, though? I hate to see dudes who don’t want get up & go to work, go to school, or do anything, but yet they demand to be catered to like a King, and use a female as his doormat.. And you’d expect me to stand by THAT?… Shittin’ the hell outta me!

I believe that a relationship should be 50/50 – You got my back & I got yours. I prefer to have a partner who is hard-working, in college, or at least making an effort to go somewhere in life. I will not settle for any less than that, sorry. Just like I got up & went hard for what I have accomplished in life, I expect my man to do the same. I’m one of those Black women who will stand by my man through whatever, BUT I refuse to stand by anyone who isn’t striving for success, or even trying to improve them self.

On dating White Women
I get tired of hearing Black males saying things like, “Black women too this”, or “Black women too that. That’s why I got me a White/Asian/Latino girl”. I don’t mind if you date women of another race, but when you DOWNPLAY us Black women while you do it, there’s an issue..

“Y’all gotta go through all that shit [but] my White woman is fine. She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other shit.”

Slim goes on to brag about his current girlfriend (who should truly be offended by his statement): “My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it.” *Raises eyebrow* I thought we were supposed to be with someone, because we love & care about them?

It’s really funny that he pointed it out that him & his brother date White girls, because they “do all the shit that I say”, though. So, the problem is that most Black women won’t allow you to run over them because they have a backbone, and ALL White women are submissive & naïve. Oh, I see. .. Well, not my White female friends! Please trust & know that they’ll get with your ass if needed.

It’s okay if you don’t like to argue or be “nagged”, but what relationship doesn’t have that? Are you really that scared, or intimidated by a Black woman? Is it really that bad, that you have to run from us? To me, that simply is a sign of weakness..

“She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit. And she’s a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so it’s cool.”……Oh, okay. I wasn’t aware that ALL Black women don’t cook, clean, nor do they have college degrees. I didn’t know that every Black female wants to take your money, go shopping, and depend on you 100%.… Damn.

Moving on… Slim says we don’t stick by our men. My brotha, only a man who deserves a good woman will get that type of treatment, point blank, PERIOD. And If I’m not mistaken, he had a Black woman by his side & he ruined that. He stated that the reason he & Letoya Luckett are no longer together, is because he cheated, and got the woman pregnant. *Laughs* A lot of men don’t appreciate a good, strong black woman when they have one, but yet they have the nerve to complain when they get stuck with the shitty ones lmao…GTFOH.. No woman is obligated to stand by the side of any man who is blatantly disrespectful, disloyal, or unappreciative.

If you keep getting stuck with Gold Diggers, Hoes, & Bitches, I suggest that you switch up the types of females that you approach. If you’re looking for your wifey, stop searching for her in the clubs! Quit overlooking all the negative signs that are oh so present in the beginning, and then getting upset because they screwed you over in the end. Find yourself a true strong Black woman & quit all this complaining!